How to help someone with dementia feel productive and purposeful
Find out how to help the person you’re caring for to feel valued by creating a range of meaningful activities they can enjoy regularly
Three signs the person with dementia feels productive and purposeful
1. They make an effort to take part in activities.
2. They are happy to help out with daily chores or activities.
3. They try to complete an activity to the best of their ability.
A dementia diagnosis can make many people to wonder, ‘what’s the point?’ After all, they know their condition is going to progress, and may therefore be inclined to give up doing all sorts of things they used to enjoy. But this only leads to leading to sadness, depression and loneliness. That’s why it’s so important to find meaningful activities they can still do.
Obstacles to feeling productive and purposeful
– Lack of identity and self-worth
Tips to encourage feelings of purpose
Any number of activities can help, but these are particularly useful.
Doing an activity where there’s a beneficial outcome or purpose to it can provide real satisfaction for someone with dementia. It could be making a cushion cover, building a bird table or threading beads onto a necklace.
Many people with dementia struggle with the feeling that they’re a burden on the person that’s caring for them, and want to do anything they can to help. Finding a chore that they can manage easily will give them a sense of purpose and something for them to do. Think laundry folding, brass polishing or laying the table and add it into their daily care plan.
Have you got a drawer full of items that need organising? Giving someone with dementia the job of sorting something can be a great activity that they can really get their teeth into, and one that helps them to feel useful.
Life story work
This is an activity which involves looking back at someone’s past life events, and then developing an individual biography of that person in a scrapbook. It can be an enjoyable activity for the person affected by dementia as they’ll probably be able to remember events from 30 years ago more easily than those that happened last week. And it gives them tasks to do, such as digging out old photos, theatre programmes, ticket stubs, mementos etc.
Life story work is also useful for professional carers, as it helps them to develop a more rounded picture of the person they’re caring for before they had dementia.